In which cultures were, or are, children seen in the following ways?
- children are impressive if they can tie their own shoelaces by the age of four
- girls are expected to knit stockings by the age of four
- children are treated with leniency because they cannot reason
- children are treated harshly because they are wilful
- children are recent arrivals from the spirit world, and must be treated carefully so they don’t choose to return there
- children are dependent
- children contribute to family work and income
- girls are running the house by age 10 whereas their brothers are allowed to play well into their teens.
Match them to these periods / cultures: Yanamamo (Amazonian rainforest), Fulani (West Africa), UK, Beng (West Africa), Tonga, Canadian Arctic, current Western, American Colonial.
Answers here, in an item written by our very own Dr Heather Montgomery. Of course, in practice you might see cultures, periods and expectations as more elastic than this.
Edit: then again, what is a ‘normal’ parent? In current Young Adult fiction, according to the New York Times:
some of the most sharply written and critically praised works reliably feature a mopey, inept, distracted or ready-for-rehab parent, suggesting that this has become a particularly resonant figure.